While your marriage may not have worked out for any number of reasons, there’s something you and your spouse can likely agree on: your children should be in the best situation possible. Unfortunately, you might not agree on what that situation is, or who should receive custody of the child.
One of the most difficult parts of a divorce is the issue of child custody, so you and your spouse will need to understand what to expect and how to get an agreement that works best for you and your children.
Your Options for Custody
Fortunately, there are a few options for your custody agreement. What’s best for your family mainly depends on what’s best for all parties involved. For example, if one spouse won’t be able to provide a safe, stable home life for the child, the other spouse may receive full custody and grant visitation for the other parent.
In cases where both spouses can provide for the child, however, you may have a shared custody agreement. In shared custody cases, the parents will each have custody for a certain time. For example, one parent may take care of the children on the weekends only, or they may alternate on a weekly basis.
Settling on an Arrangement
When deciding what type of custody agreement is best for you, you’ll need a Pennsylvania family attorney on your side. Many factors may go into these agreements, like location, distance from schools, housing, and the working hours of each parent.
Fortunately, a family lawyer can mediate, finding an option that works for you, your former spouse, and your child. Alternatively, if you’re concerned about the custody of your child, they can fight for you. They’ll make sure your child is in the best care, so you’ll know they’re safe.
Getting the Custody Agreement Your Child Needs
It’s not always easy getting the custody agreement that’s best for your family. A divorce is a highly-emotional time, and the threat of no longer seeing their child every day may upset your spouse. So, without help, a custody battle can be a long, painful process.
Fortunately, it doesn’t have to be. You don’t want to put your child in such a difficult position. Instead, you want them to feel happy and safe. Once you, your spouse, and your attorney agree on what’s best for your child, you’ll present the agreement to the judge, who will enforce the custody agreement, making sure your child is in the right hands.